1. Floss.
2. Life isn’t fair, but it’s still good.
3. When in doubt, just take the next step.
4. No matter the dead end, there is always another step forward.
5. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone.
6. Don’t take yourself so seriously. No one else does.
7. Pay off your credit cards every month.
8. You don’t have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.
9. Cry with someone. It’s more healing than crying alone.
10. Save for retirement, starting with your first paycheck.
11. Make peace with your past so it won’t screw up the present.
12. It’s OK to let your children see you cry.
13. Pay yourself first: save 10% of everything you earn.
14. Save 6 months of expenses as an emergency fund.
15. Don’t compare your life to others. You have no idea what their journey is all about.
16. If a relationship has to be a secret, you shouldn’t be in it.
17. Life is too short for long pity parties. Get busy living, or get busy dying.
18. You can get through anything if you stay put in today.
19. It’s never too late to have a happy childhood.
20. It’s never too late to live the life you could have.
21. You can always change the past. (Hint: Reframe it.)
22. When it comes to going after tangible life goals, don’t take no for an answer.
23. Burn the candles; use the nice sheets; wear the fancy lingerie. Don’t save it for a special occasion. Today is special.
24. Over-prepare, then go with the flow.
25. Be eccentric now. Don’t wait for old age to wear purple.
26. The most important sex organ is the brain.
27. No one is in charge of your happiness except you.
28. Frame every so-called disaster with these words: “In five years, will this matter?”
29. Forgive everyone everything. Learn to accept the apologies that you never got.
30. What other people think of you is none of your business.
31. Time heals some things. Give time time. Love heals everything else.
32. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.
33. Your job won’t take care of you when you are sick. Your friends will. Stay in touch.
34. Believe in miracles.
35. Whatever doesn’t kill you really does make you stronger.
36. Growing old beats the alternative — dying young.
37. Your children get only one childhood. Make it memorable.
38. Get outside every day. Miracles are waiting everywhere.
39. If we all threw our problems in a pile and saw everyone else’s, we’d grab ours back.
40. Don’t audit life. Show up and make the most of it now.
41. Get rid of anything that isn’t useful, beautiful or joyful.
42. Over respond. Don’t just handle the problem… make it so the problem will never happen again.
43. All that truly matters in the end is that you loved.
44. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.
45. The best is yet to come.
46. In the end, everything will be ok. If things aren’t okay… then… it’s not the end.
47. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up, and show up.
48. Take a deep breath. It calms the mind.
49. If you don’t ask, the answer will be “no.”
50. Yield.
51. “Early to bed and early to rise makes a man healthy, wealthy and wise” – Ben Franklin
52. Put people first and results second.
53. Get a library card.
54. Life isn’t tied with a bow, but it’s still a gift.
55. Fail often, fail early.
56. A good haircut changes everything.
57. Take a daily cold shower.
58. It’s never about you.
59. Hysterical = historical
60. Drink your coffee black.
61. Become an early riser.
62. Look people in the eye and greet them.
63. Learn and use people’s names.
64. Give everyone a smile.
65. Laugh often.
66. Believe in the power of compound interest
67. Exercise for a minimum of 20 minutes every day. This doesn’t have to be all at once, but can be spread out throughout the day.
68. Become incredibly selfish: without you, there is nothing, and attraction isn’t possible.
69. Unhook yourself from the future: attraction works in the present, not in the future.
70. Over respond to every event: by over-responding instead of overreacting, you evolve, which is very attractive.
71. Build a super reserve in every area: having enough is not nearly enough for you to be irresistibly attractive.
72. Add value just for the joy of it: when you add value because you enjoy it, people are naturally attracted to you.
73. Affect others profoundly: the more you touch others, the more attractive you’ll become.
74. Market your talents shamelessly: if you’re embarrassed about what you do well, you won’t be very attractive.
75. Become irresistibly attractive to yourself: how can you attract others if you don’t feel irresistibly attractive to yourself?
76. Get a fulfilling life, not just an impressive lifestyle: a great life is attractive; a lifestyle is only seductive.
77. Deliver twice what you promise: when you consistently deliver more than was expected, new customers are drawn to you.
78. Create a vacuum which pulls you forward: being pulled forward is attractive; pushing is not.
79. Eliminate delay: time is expensive and thus is very unattractive.
80. Get your personal needs met, once and for all: if you have unmet needs, you’ll attract others in the same position.
81. Thrive on the details: subtleties, details and nuances are more attractive than the obvious.
82. Tolerate nothing: when you put up with something, it costs you. Costs are expensive and thus unattractive.
83. Show others how to please you: don’t make them guess.
84. Endorse your worst weaknesses: when you can accept and honor the worst part of yourself, you are more compassionate of others.
85. Sensitize yourself: the more you feel, the more you’ll notice and respond to the many opportunities in the present.
86. Perfect your environment: “Attraction” as an operating system is a sophisticated system which requires a first-class environment.
87. Develop more character than you need: integrity is not enough to become irresistibly attractive.
88. See how perfect the present really is: especially when it is clearly not.
89. Become unconditionally constructive: high levels of respect are very attractive.
90. Orient exclusively around your values: when you spend your days doing what fulfills you, you are attractive.
91. Simplify everything: abandoning the non-essentials leaves more room for you to attract.
92. Master your craft: being the best at what you do is the easiest way to become successful.
93. Recognize and tell the truth: the truth is the most attractive thing of all, but it requires skills and awareness.
94. Have a vision: when you can see what’s coming, you don’t need to create a future
95. Be more human: when you are genuine, you are attractive.
96. Debt of more than 10% of your gross annual salary this is a huge red flag. Quit spending, pay off your debt and start saving.
97. Don’t tolerate people who don’t treat you well. Period. Don’t tolerate them for financial reasons. Don’t tolerate them for emotional reasons. Don’t tolerate them for the children’s sake or for convenience sake. “Surround yourself only with people that make you a better version of yourself, that bring out your best parts, love and accept you.”
98. Be Good to the People You Care About. “Show up with and for your friends. You matter, and your presence matters.
99. Treat belongings as investments – they are. But things that are of the highest quality you can afford, that make you feel good, that last.
100. You can’t do everything; focus on doing a few things really well.
101. Complete things you start, if for no other reason that honoring the reason you started them.
102. Confront fear. Insist you do. Make it a habit
103. Consciously and consistently develop yourself. Choose new skills to learn; choose paths that require risk, discomfort and effort to consciously grow.
104. Try to not think too much about happiness. Instead, focus on being at peace, using life’s circumstances to grow
105. Your life is a reflection of those whom you hang out with. Stop giving energy to those whom have less to lose than you, who aren’t going somewhere, who aren’t positive,
106. Get used to taking action even though you’re not sure you can succeed (or even if you’re on the right path). Growth and success come from action; Nobody Knows What They’re Doing, Get Used to It
107. Invest in Your friends and family; It’s Worth It. Psychological studies show time and time again that one of the largest factors for there is a “powerful correlation between the warmth of your relationships and your health and happiness in your later years.
108. Have the courage to live a life true to yourself, not the life others expected of you.
109. Focus on whom returns your energy
110. Find a job and a relationship that supports you in becoming a better person.
111. Do a random act of secret kindness every day.
112. Begin your day by creating something; do NOT start with reactionary items such as returning Emails or calls; reading Email or perusing the news.
113. Volunteer
114. Use direct deposit and automatically deposit 10% of each paycheck to savings. Live only off of the remaining 90%
115. Invest in your hair: your appearance forms an instant opinion; you’ll have it for the next 4 weeks.
116. Invest in friendships for who you are around them. The truest measure of a friendship is, does it call you to be a better person? Only invest in people whom believe in you, encourage you, and inspire you. (But note that “believe in you” does NOT have to mean “agree with you” or “see things your way.”
117. Everyday have something to look forward to and an identified focus to work on that contributes to a larger purpose
118. Look in the mirror every morning and ask yourself: “If today were the last day of my life, would I want to do what I am about to do today?” And whenever the answer has been “No” for too many days in a row, know you need to change something.
119. Eat and exercise like you’re a diabetic heart patient with a stroke – so you never actually become one.
120. Start taking care of your health now, not later.
121. Fear often comes disguised as boredom, procrastination, or a lack of clairity.
122. Do your work early in the morning, because fear is still asleep at 5 a.m.
123. It’s all solvable… or, it’s not.
124. Success is easiest when it’s a byproduct of the environment you set up.
125. Risk is always reducible.
126. Problems are immediate opportunities.
127. If you are facing a problem, if means that you ignored your intuition weeks ago and your inkling months ago.
128. People are doing their best… even when it’s clear they are not.
129. Come to see how perfect your life is today, even if it doesn’t look or feel that way.
130. Reorient your life around the gifts you have.
131. Integrity comes first, needs second and wants third.
132. Let yourself have it all, even if it feels like too much.
133. For an effortless life, get more than you need and far more than you deserve.
134. Invest 10% of your time to maximize the other 90%.
135. Orienting your life around your values makes decisions effortless.
136. Stop trying to change your behavior and, instead, evolve.
137. Triple your personal boundaries.
138. Build a community of people around you who bring out your best.
139. Educate your environment until it responds the way you like.
140. Do one thing at a time; do it slowly and deliberately.
141. Do things completely.
142. Do less.
143. Develop rituals.
144. Live simply.

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