21 Days of SLEEP! [21 Day Challenge]

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  • #3737
    Mark Farmer
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      Another step forward: 4a-11:20. Not *enough* sleep… but stoked by:

      1. I was genuinely tired and ready for bed well before the 4a bedtime (something that’s really been off for months and months); and
      2. I awoke naturally (I believe… although something could have woken me) at a semi-normal time; and
      3. It’s 2 days in a row of a semi-routine

      Plan tonight: light stretching prior to bed; in bed by 1a, lights off by 2a; tryptophan and CBD!

      Looking to string together a number of days!

      #3738
      MyGoals1
      Participant

        Happy to hear that you’re making good progress 🙂

        #3741
        koleah
        Participant

          I got my fancy Oura gen 3 ring today 🙂 Sleep tracking as well as a bunch of other stuff.

          #3750
          Mark Farmer
          Keymaster

            Alright… putting a string of not “stellar” days together, but at least *solid* movement forward.  Regular-ish bedtime at 2-3a; regular-ish wake up time @ 11a. More importantly I’m feeling rested and getting semi-good sleep.

            Let’s tighten up the pattern: I still want to get in bed, by 1a; be ready for sleep by 2a. Striving for 11a – 10a wake up time.

            All of this, of course, predicates that I get my work done IN THE DAY (as opposed to after midnight as I have for the past ~2 years.

            I want this. Now let’s just put the work in to achieve it. <3

            #3751
            Mark Farmer
            Keymaster

              Kolea, re: ring. Did they offer trade in or you just had to buy a new one?

              #3768
              Mark Farmer
              Keymaster

                Getting caught up. Feels like take one step forward, take one step backwards. That being said I HAVE made progress.  I’ll post my answers to the 21-Day Challenge Final Report tomorrow.

                I look forward to reading other’s answers! <3

                 

                 

                #3770
                koleah
                Participant

                  Bought a new one. They OFFERED me the opportunity to send my old one back to them for free for research purposes!

                  Probably going to sell it on ebay though. Since I wear my new one almost constantly, instead of just at night like my old one.

                  #3771
                  koleah
                  Participant

                    Re: ring- Since I was a previous customer, I got a lifetime waiver of the subscription though ($6/month) and a small discount. I figured that alone was worth buying the ring. If I didn’t like it, I would be able to resell it for near what I paid for it based on the discount, and I’d still have the waiver in case the next next-gen ring came out and I wanted it instead.

                    #3778
                    Mark Farmer
                    Keymaster

                      Sweet deal on the ring. And thanks for the tips on benefits of being a past customer. I, myself, and very curious about the ring – would love if you started a thread detailing more info or showing screen shots of what it presents and sharing what / how it contributes towards your life or goals.

                      I hope to be able to also do a review of the ring. Stay tuned and I’ll let everyone know if that might happen.

                      My Challenge: So this really has been one step forward, one step (sometimes two) backwards.

                      but I’ve made valuable progress, gained valuable experience and can see the light at the end of the tunnel.

                      Random observations:

                      • My sleep hygiene – basically all the things they tell you to do if you’d like quality sleep: go to bed at the same time, wake up at the same time, don’t use electronics within 2 hours of bedtime, watch what you eat, do something to decompress before bedtime, don’t read in bed – are !@#$.
                      • My sleep hygiene has been !@#$ now for YEARS… ESPECIALLY since pandemic began
                      • Because of my odd hours, my HIGHLY irregular bedtime and the layout of my house not giving me tons of control over my surroundings (I’ve got a wife that works in the room next to the bed, it’s a creaky old house, I’ve got a VERY needy cat) I often only get 4-6 hours of sleep. I NEED 7 1/2 OR MORE.
                      • This leaves me with migraines. It’s gotten so bad that I was getting migraines 3-5x a week. And, when I have a migraine, I’m basically non-functional
                      • I noticed that the quality of sleep, sleeping from, say, midnight until 8am was different from the quality of sleep from 3am – 11a and VASTLY different than the “quality” of sleep (notice the quotes) from, say, 5am – 3p.  The later I go to bed the worse the quality of sleep I get EVEN if the number of hours is the same or longer.
                      • On the days depression rears its head it REALLY screws with doing what I need to do for quality sleep
                      • The atmosphere at home – stress, challenges, frustrations – REALLY get in the way of proper sleep.

                      I suppose it’s that last one that really rang a bell hard and is one of the top things that needs to be addressed.

                      Among the other discoveries I’ve made is that…

                      • my quality of sleep is best, the closer to midnight I go to bed (I didn’t realize I had a chronotype… really thought I was more of a night owl than that simply because of the amount of energy I have at night)
                      • When I got to bed earlier I wake naturally anywhere from 7-8 hours after, even if it’s 8a or 9a (again, because of my life experience _I_ thought I preferred waking later – 11am or even later)
                      • after about 3 days of adequate sleep the migraines go away
                      • even more wildly, because I’ve been dealing with high blood pressure, after three days of quality sleep my blood pressure returns to normal.  Did NOT see that coming
                      • that after even ONE night of !!@#$ sleep… I’m right back to a migraine
                      • And worse: it takes between 2 and 4 nights after that one crappy night to get rid of the migraines and begin feeling better after sleep.

                       

                      #3780
                      Mark Farmer
                      Keymaster

                        My End of Challege Report!

                        1) How did you first hear about the LSE 21 Day Challenge?
                        I INVENTED IT! Duh 🙄🤣

                        2) Why did you accept the LSE 21 Day Challenge?
                        It was/is time to CHANGE. I’ve been experiencing 2-6 migraines a week for far too long. On top of that I’ve required medication to function – medication that you’re SUPPOSED to only take 2-3 times a MONTH or else it kills your liver. Enough is enough. This HAS to change, my life depends on it.

                        3) What was your goal?
                        Ugh: Lemme go back to the beginning and see what I wrote. [I’m back:}

                        • 14 or more days, in bed before 2 am
                        • 7 days or more lights out before 2 am (both can be on the same day e.g. in bed and lights out before 2 counts as success for both of these)
                        • Aiming for 7+ hours of sleep for 14 days of the 21
                        • Strictly recording my bedtime for at least 18 of the 21 days of this challenge

                        4) Which success-related or motivational product(s) did you rely on during the Challenge and which do you feel were the most important to your success? Why were these important to your success?

                        Of these the O2 ring (immensely helpful for automatically monitoring my sleep and testing for apnea), mouth tape (helped getting my apnea under control; improved quality of sleep), tryptophan (hugely helpful for working to change my circadian rhythm) and the LSE Mastermind (inspiration, motivation and monitoring) were the most important and useful.

                        5) When did you realize that you were serious about doing this 21 Day Challenge?
                        Even before the challenge I knew this NEEDED to change.

                        6) What were the first results that you noticed in your 21 Day Challenge?
                        The first major breakthrough was about 1 1/2 weeks in: the 2nd day I went to bed by 2am, with mouth tape, sleeping 7.5 hour. It was LITERALLY the first time I’ve woken up feeling rejuvenated in 20 years or more? It was profound.

                        7) How did you measure “success”? In terms of that definition, what success did you reach?
                        Honestly this was just a day-by-day thing. I had so many F’ ups it was crazy, each time sending me back to massive migraines for 2-4 days until I could get back on track again. “Success” for me, for most of the challenge, was simply me getting to bed before 4am (early for when I had been sleeping), getting anything more than 7 hours (more than the 3-6 I had been getting, but still less than the 7.5 MINIMUM I need) and being able to handle the next day’s headache (it has been rare, rare, rare that I’ve woken without a headache so tha the measure is whether I need prescription medication).  Waking without a headache has been nearly unthinkable

                        8) Success is rarely achieved alone. Whose support did you rely on during this Challenge and what difference did that support make?
                        The fact you guys were doing a Challenge alongside me was deeply motivating!

                        9) Many people trying for a success larger than they already have will experience new, sudden and perhaps serious obstacles when they begin to work towards their dream. Quitters say, “Oh, well, something came up. That’s why I had to give up on my goal.” Winners say, “Yes there were challenges, and here’s how I handled them to reach my goal anyway.” How did you succeed in SPITE of the obstacles?
                        Again, this was something that HAD to change. I wish, wish, wish I were someone that never had to get his back against the wall before mustering the energy to change something… but we all can be that stubborn sometimes. But this, my life literally depended on it.

                        10) Motivation waxes and wanes. What might start off as a fire in your soul quickly becomes drudgery the 5th… or 10th… or 15th… day. Did you ever feel like quitting? If “yes,” how or what did you do to renew your commitment to succeed? How did you persist even when your motivation was flagging?
                        That magical first day I woke feeling completely rested and rejuvenated. I’d thought I’d never experience that again – that waking with horrible aches and a headache and needing massive amounts of coffee and a few hours to wake was simply “normal” after age 40.  But that magic morning – that, honestly, I have not experienced yet again – left me determined to do WHATEVER I need to… to have MORE mornings like that.

                        11) What was the most powerful thing you gained from your Challenge? What did you learn about yourself from this Challenge?
                        Again I learned that my home environment is DEEPLY affecting of my quality of sleep and, even more, the quality of my life leading to sleep. I discovered that I CAN awaken feeling refreshed. I discovered that I don’t have to live with migraines. I’ve regained motivation, peace and far better health!

                        12) How has your life changed by deciding to accept the 21 Day Challenge?
                        I feel well on track for ACTUALLY getting this sleep issue under control for a healthy and joyous life.

                        13) Why should someone participate in a future 21 Day Challenge?
                        It changes your life.

                        14) If you could inspire one person to begin their success in a 21 Day Challenge, who would that be? Why would you choose that person? How would you help them succeed?
                        Oof… I now a TON of people from Facebook whose lives are experiencing challenges. I’d invited many of them and… most never joined.  I “get” it: life IS hard and more so when you’re down and out. But nothing changes… until you change something.  And the LifeSuccessEngine.com Challenge is set up to meet you where you are and make room for what EVER you can give.  There are not huge expectations; no impossible requirements; nothing to buy. It’s all free and designed to powerfully support you where you are to change your life.  THEM.  I’d want THEM to come along the next time. <3

                        Continue your habit of DOING – Email that person… NOW, a copy of or link to your thread.
                        I’ll post this challenge report to my Facebook page. I hope that inspires them to come along for the journey next time!

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